Got a little story for you that might help you learn how to stop blaming others…
“This is just another scam to get my money, right?”
I could feel the whiny, tire-kicking, excuse-making ‘I-want-400K-by-next-week-done-everything-for-me’ attitude a mile away…
This lady really had it in for me too. ‘Gertrude’ we’ll call her (to protect the complaining)…and she took one hell of an exception that she was on my email list and that I dare send her an offer trying to sell her something. *gasp*
“All I get are these emails from you telling me I should buy this and buy that! It’s always something EVERY DAY! You’re just a 2 bit car salesman trying to take my money! Well I’m not falling for it and I’m reporting you Mr. Holland!!”
2-bit car salesman?
And do car salesmen only make quarters? Really?
Funny thing tho. She stayed on my list even though she evidently hated what I was sending her. Maybe she stayed because of my rugged good looks. 🙂
Usually I dismiss this drivel. But on this day I felt compelled to respond…
“‘Gertrude’ [again protecting the name in case of witness protection], have you actually TRIED any of the products I promote and endorse? (me thinks no) And keep in mind that in most cases there is a money-back guarantee as well.”
I’ve been in this business awhile, and here’s the bottom line: Most of the IM stuff out there being sold these days is actually pretty good. Yet, you hear all the doomsdayers spout how most products are crap.
It ain’t the products. It’s the attitudes.
“People spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with their lives.” – J. Michael Straczynski
“Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.” – Joseph Campbell
“People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.” – Shannon L. Alder
Here’s a good article of how to stop blaming others …
Did I possibly touch a nerve with the above quotes? Good.
The problem is PEOPLE bitch, complain and never implement what they buy. And why do we put the blame on others when something or some course ‘doesn’t work’? Because it gives us an out. We find that scapegoat that makes us feel better…comforted and it validates our decision not to act.
If people like Miss G spent less time complaining and more time implementing her business then the world would be a wealthier place with less griping.
DECIDE that you’re going to do what it takes to realize your dreams.
STOP blaming others for your problems and stop blaming others for your mistakes in life. It’s gonna get you nowhere.
Watch my video:
Tell Gertrude to watch it too…
So…you’re probably wondering what actually is the one easy step in how to stop blaming others for your life?
Look in the mirror. If you don’t know what I mean…watch my video again.
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